Life is truly something:
First off, it is beautiful.
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| Big D on the Gunflint trail |
It is also:
. exciting
. gives you strength .solidifies what is important
.and let's you let go of what is not
. can knock you down
. can bring you to your knees
. delivers the unexpected
.makes you realize who you can depend on...and who you need to let go of
.makes you fight
.and when you think you've had enough, it makes you fight some more
. exhilarating
.gives you the opportunity to determine how you approach each and every day
. let's you grow
.gives you the chance to show your abilities
.shows you that you can do anything if you put your mind to it
.plays with your emotions
. can cause butterflies
.and it can cause heartache
. makes you laugh until it hurts
.and then laugh some more
..and if you're really lucky, it may even involve tears -- but not sad tears, those happy ones. Where you can't breathe and those moments that you wish would never end
I clearly do not have life figured out quite yet, I may even question it, but I believe you are the sole determiner of your attitude. It's made me realize that how you carry yourself is more important than your popularity, that your character defines you, and good people come from every corner of the world. I've come to understand that staying in and cuddling up to a good movie is as fun as a night out on the town with friends and you should hold onto those people you can call when the going gets tough...even if it's for a ride at 2am after a solid night out. Being able to laugh is sometimes the best medicine -- and smiling can put a whole new perspective on your day..or someone else's. Hard work is always the best work and striving to reach your fullest potential is all anybody should ever ask from you. I've learned first-hand that spending a day doing something you love is imperative -- especially with a coffee in hand....& a best friend by your side. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, even if it seems as though your tunnel doesn't end. Find the good in tomorrow because if you don't, tomorrow is one hell of a long day. Never depend on anybody else to make you happy...or for money...unless it's your parents because, well, sometimes you just gotta mooch a free dinner....or a few bucks outta them. ;) I've realized you should tell other people how much they mean to you -- before that chance disappears. There is no need for regret, but understanding what you probably shouldn't attempt again. Holding grudges is not worth it -- even if you don't realize it at the time. Singing as loud as you can in the car is definitely a stress reliever - especially when it's with a really good friend. The best types of friends are those you can go a long period of time without seeing, but when you do, it's like you saw them yesterday...and you can pick up like they never left. Being proud of your achievements is sometimes one of the hardest things to do, but taking pride in yourself brings a whole new meaning to the word 'confidence'. A pair of really cute heels -- or boots -- or, let's face it, a new pair of Nike's, can make anyone feel good..even if it's momentarily. Receiving little acts of kindness from good people is one of the best feelings...and those people who you expect to knock you down even further than you already are can often surprise you..in a good way. Taking nothing for granted is always the best way to go -- especially when it comes to memories and people. Whether it's the the good, the bad, and even the ugly. They all carry some meaning and, if were lucky enough, help us grow.
I've realized that looking at the positive can often times be difficult and it's easy to lose sight of what is important, but if you look hard enough, it's always there. And if you don't find it today, sleep on it..and look for it tomorrow.
ta ta for now,
Kelly
Ps. sometimes I just need that reminder. And I know that if nobody reads this, my mama will. :)
